Tuesday, August 22, 2006

The Rest of It...

Time passes, and sometimes we don’t even note it as it does.  But there are milestones to every life…and one is occurring today.

My brother is having a birthday today.   Whether he’s celebrating it, or just marking its passing with regret, it’s happening…and he’s 52 years old.

I told my son in jest that his uncle was an ‘old fart’, but I’m not that far behind him—so I really can’t say a lot about that.  

We all get older with each passing day; the trick is in staying as young as possible where it really matters:  in our hearts, and between our ears.  Stay young there, and the aging travails of the body will be less pressing.   Stay young there, and laughter can be a true friend.

Stay young there, and death will come as a surprise—one not wholly welcome (death rarely is), but one that can be taken with grace, and perhaps a smile to cap off a life well lived.

And so it goes…

1 comment:

I. M. Anoldgeek said...

The only regret I have had--of any import--is that we must spend so much of our lives in the act of survival, and so little of it in living.

Sadly, sometimes that struggle makes it difficult to maintain a youthful outlook. When each day is taken up not by the glad arrival of new experiences, but by a measure of dislike and disgust for a repetition of the "same old same old", time tends to pass more quickly than one would like.

However, if one has a wide variety of interests and actively follows their leads, the art of maintaining a youthful and active mind remains simple.

Yes, I am fifty-two now. Do I notice a difference in my internal age? Usually not. I've always been a curmudgeonly bastard :)